Monday, November 30, 2009

Thanksgiving and After

My plans for Thanksgiving included dinner with Russ, Jan and family; however as sometimes happens to the best laid plans, mine went astray. I didn’t feel well, I think due to reaction to the new medication, that I hope might help with the after shingles pain. I didn’t feel like going anywhere, so I thought it best to stay home. Russ and the two youngest grandkids, Matthew and Kelsey, brought me a delicious dinner; which is not surprising since Jan is a very good cook. Fortunately, this round of not feeling up to snuff didn’t affect my taste buds and I enjoyed it all.

During the first months after getting the shingles, perhaps due to some of the medication, everything I ate tasted like so much nothing. I didn’t care if I ate or not, but knew I had to, so I forced myself to eat, though probably not as well as I should have.

I am gradually feeling better, but my head still doesn’t feel as it should. It’s rocking a bit as I write this; so, more R & R when I finish this piece. This R & R translates to reading and resting.

Needless to say, I spent a relatively lazy weekend, mostly doing just the essentials: one of those essentials being food intake. I had some broth left after putting the dressing together [before I began feeling so punk]. The broth would make good soup I thought. Then the idea of dumplings entered my mind, but it would have to be the quick and easy kind. So, I chopped a few carrots and a short stick of celery in my little food processor, along with a bit of onion and set it to boil. Next, I got out some baking mix and mixed about a half cup of that with a little olive oil, water, and a small amount of protein powder into a thick dough.

I wanted small dumplings, so I rolled the dough into about marble sized pieces, and dropped them into the boiling water. The broth absorbed enough of the dough to slightly thicken the soup. All of that, including the cooking, took little time, energy and effort. I think it was one of the best soups I’ve ever made.

Now back to resting again.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Support Our Service Men and Women

Operation YOU GO, GIRL! Send a holiday gift or card to a female service member.

I saw a segment about this site on television and looked it up. Operation You Go Girl is especially geared to women, because they can do things to help women of the area in ways our service men can't, because of the social structure with its limits on contacts between men and women. Some of the items mentioned are personal toiletries, ground coffee [the real deal, not decaf], etc. Check the site at the end of the blog.

Any gifts meant for Christmas need to be mailed by December 5th, but there are ongoing needs. You can find out more specific information about it by checking out the web site.

Getting a package for Christmas would be a Nice Thing, but if you can't get the above done in time for Christmas, or even if you do, the items mentioned are things always needed, so you could still send them.

The Do One Nice Thing site gives detailed directions on what, how, and to whom items to the armed forces should be sent.

Other items needed:
School supplies for Iraqi and Afghan children
Food for Kentucky children
Sweaters and sweathirts for Detroit families
Knitters: You can help

Addresses and further details on the above, plus other suggestions on Do One Nice Thing. Click on icon below blog.

Nice-A-Holic

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Saying the Right Thing Rightly

"Lord, grant me the wisdom of a loving heart that I may say the right thing rightly."

Ah yes, saying the right thing, and saying it rightly! That's not always easy. Have you ever thought you were saying the right thing and the way another person took it, it was exactly the wrong thing? Then you tried to make clearer what you meant,and everything slid further down the slippery slope of misunderstanding. Perhaps this is one time when that saying of, "If at first you don't succeed, quit," might be appropriate, at least for the time being. Prayer before hand would have been a good idea, if you knew the conversation was coming, but perhaps you didn't know in advance. But, whether or not you prayed before an incident such as this, I'm sure it would be good to pray afterward -- in the event you get another chance to do the right thing. Blessings in all you do and say.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

A Favorite Poem

In an earlier blog I mentioned some of my favorite poems. The one I'm posting today ranks very near the top. I've been trying to find my copy of it, or a copy online. I, as usual, did not remember the writer, but my memory said the title was "The Arrow."

I searched and searched on line, but kept finding references to other poems and poets. I 'met' this poem early in life, but about 30 years ago, some friends gave me a book of poems, titled "The Home Book of Modern Verse by Burton Egbert Stevenson." I am not sure what happened to the book, but I no longer seem to have it. Today I flipped through an old notebook of mine and would you believe it! I had copied the poem "The Arrow" by Clarence Urmy, with the notation above. So, here it is. I hope you like it, at least almost as much as I do.

The Arrow by Clarence Urmy

Straight from a mighty bow this truth is driven:
"They fail, and they alone, who have not striven."

Fly far, O shaft of light! all doubt redeeming;
Rouse men from dull despair and idle dreaming.

High Heaven's evangel be, gospel God-given:
"They fail, and they alone, who have not striven."

Focus on the second and last line. If you tried to do something, but did not quite achieve your desired goal, you may be disappointed; but in trying, you did not fail.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Before Television - Before Video Games

What did kids do to amuse themselves and have fun before the advent of television? And before video games? They did what people do: They made do with what was available and used their heads to think of other things to do. Movies were available, when we were allowed to go. Television was in its early beginning stages when I was a child. But it was just a blip on the radar screen, and few people had even heard of it yet. It didn’t come into prominence until after World War II.

In warm weather we spent most of any free time we had playing outdoors during long summer days. Some of the games we played were marbles, hop scotch, mumblety peg, tag, annie over, or some kind of ball game if there were enough kids to play. And generally just talking, yelling and running around.

Indoors: Evenings after supper, we read, played games and listened to the radio. In 1933 we moved from a small town out into the country. There was no electricity in most rural areas until after World War II, but we had a battery powered radio to keep an ear on the world. Programs we listened to were: Sgt Preston of the Yukon [may not be the exact name], Jack Armstrong - All American Boy, Gang Busters, Dick Tracy, The Lux Theater, Amos and Andy, Lum and Abner, Fibber Magee and Molly, The Shadow. There may be others that I haven’t thought of.

Most of these were 30 minute shows; one or two might have been 15 minutes, not sure. I think Sgt Preston and Jack Armstrong were daily shows along about the time we had our evening meal. They may have been 15 minutes. The other shows were weekly. We didn’t sit grouped around the radio to listen, but often engaged in other activities, such as children’s card games, or checkers while we listened to the fascinating tales of adventure. Ooops! How could I forget dominoes!

During the day, my mother kept up with a few to a few daily soap operas as she did her household tasks. Those that I remember were: Ma Perkins, Our Gal Sunday and Helen Trent.

In the winter when much more time was spent indoors, there was usually a jigsaw puzzle in various stages of completion. When a puzzle was finished, another was set up. Everybody wanted to put in the last piece, and when the puzzle was near completion, almost everyone had a hold out puzzle piece in his/her pocket. More later.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Low Mileage Driving

This past Thursday I had my car serviced for winter, and also had it inspected so I could renew my car license, which is due this month. Since the time has passed for warranty servicing, I usually have my car serviced in the spring and in the fall. This past spring I didn’t have it serviced, since I had driven it so little after the advent of the shingles last November. I last had the car serviced the week before Thanksgiving 2008. The number of miles put on the car in this past year is unbelievable. I’m sure I must have set a record for low mileage driving over the period of a year; so low, that I won’t even admit what it is. is really, really low, but you're under quite a bit. When they finished inspecting my car, the service manager handed me the papers and said, "Your car is in good shape; just as good as it was --- miles ago."
"Be ca'am, be as ca'am as you can. And, if you can't be ca'am, be as ca'am as you can." Reputedly, advice from an old New Englander on staying cool, calm and collected.